I know this will be a long process and I know my W is watching and testing me. My sitch didn't happen over night and it will not get solved over night. That is why I think that it is okay to have a communication strategy by learning from past mistakes.
I am GALing and using the alt as a means of communication as well. I also realize that this may not go as I want therefore I must detach. To me detach means that I may love my W, but I am at a place emotionally where I do not need her and that I am okay if she chooses to move on without me.
