Although I have not posted on your thread and haven't caught up on your sitch yet, I agree with Coach & TH...time to get a L ASAP. In fact, I would suggest retaining council before I would contact oc.
We were both pro per & when the ruling resulted in a 25/75 split, he retained a "super L" to represent him in a new hearing. In the time it took me to retain my L, his L was after me daily, wanting to engage in phone conferences, etc. I ignored them all.
Just a couple of things I learned so far in the process;
-Mind what you say in any e-mail exchange, they can & probably will be used against you if it helps their case.
-Providing a log/calendar of times/events & any pertinent details means a great deal. I kept a separate calendar & just recorded the times of pick up & drop off, etc. in the box.
-Be prepared...research the process so you know what to expect. If the Judge has to decide, they will more than likely go with what the mediator recommends. The mediator typically makes a recommendation based on precedence. That's why it's so important to create & stick to a schedule that's close to what you're asking for, as the oc will claim you weren't that interested.
