Kissak - I really understand where you are at. Between a rock and a hard place. You still love him, you want to save your family, but you have had enough....and now what. Not easy....you were patient for so long, you've tried so hard, but everyone has their braking point. So think of you, what's good for you....how much of this are you willing to take, because nobody deserves what he keeps doing to you....MLC or not.
I personally would not believe his story with the flowers either....trust your gut feeling.
It almost seems like you are too nice to him and he takes advantage...knowing that you will always forgive him....I think that I'm little like that as well.
BTW - in the past was it always him leaving? Or did you ever take a stand and asked him to leave.
Hang in there hun, and take your time to think this through....
((((hugs))))
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