I understand and that is what I am working on, but opening up communication can't hurt. I am not trying to control her...I didn't aske her to respond and in fact I didn't think she would.
I am GALing and I do feel better about me and my sitch. But PH I have been told by other relationship guru's that a line of communication has to remain open if a M is to survive. I read MWD book and she insists that you have to try a variety of tools, take stock of the outcome then redeploy.
I know I have to GAL and detach. My M is hanging by a spider web strand, but if I do not achieve my desired result at least I have GAL. My W has given a gift of time so when and if she does move I hope to be able to address whatever comes at me with thought and not emotion.
