Thanks guys, th you are not upsetting me. I am going to contact her L, I have already sent a message to my L about retainer I am going to put a stop to this crap.

I don't play along and she uses the kids this way, it makes me sick and ewill probably make the judge sick as well, this judge does not like games and especially using the kids as the bait.

So much for dbing for my M now, that is over with, all about my kids now.