Blindsided, Just served with papers!

[TimeHeals]

Yes I could have left the last sentence out, but here we go with another power play on her part using the kids. She makes me sick, I am really upset right now.

Hopefully I am not getting you mixed up with another poster when I offer this criticism:

It's not a power play. She already has the kids when she wants and you bargaining. She shut you down and refered you to her attorney.

She has an attorney. If I remember, you decided to do this Pro Se (or Im Pro Per).

She is prepared, and you are just behind the curve is all... despite your assertion that you don't need an attorney. I am thinking this to myself anyway.

And yes, the last line is unneccessary.

All this legal and custody crap is better handled by a third party so you can say the same thing if she breaches legal issues: "I have no idea. I'm not a lawyer, and that's what attorneys are for. Let's let them figure it out".

What do we usually say: No R talk, no legal talk (get an attorney to do that for you), go dim, and keep things cordial.

This battle over visitation is the downside of handling your own legal matters on points where you are not in agreement.