Blue - I have RR just haven't had time to crack it open yet but thanks for the reminder to get to it!
Allen - you're very welcome! It was CRAZY! I just read all of it and can't believe it. I was going to post again but it was locked.
The comment about the kids bothered me because even though my kids are aware of H's inappropriate business, you advocated that after I talked to him about H's "spinning things" that I not engage in anymore one on one conversations with them about H or our R! You very much advocated for an explanation - telling them I was for the M and they should be too - that we loved H and wanted to save things - then to get out of that; to only have family discussions with both H and I together; to tell them to say, "You should talk to mom about that," if H brought anything up further. So much different than what it appeared - that you were advocating dragging kids into the middle. Crazy.
