I think it's just time to work on letting it go. I'm asking the questions. I'm working on it and realize I'm not completely free of the love for her. Nor the anger. Heck, just emotions related to her. But I recognize that letting her go emotionally is the key for me. I have to let her go. Not for her or for the kids or anyone other than me.
The love is what makes it so hard. It would be so easy if we could just shut off that part of our hearts and move on but unfortunately, it does not work that way.
And I agree 100% -the key is to let go for you, not her.
Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and move forward.
