Yeah Kat - I like that plan & I wish it could be arranged. But I DO think it's funny. Well in a warped kind of way.
Lola - I totally agree with you. But since I manage my son's disability income (which bothers ex - go figure) I don't want him causing me any hassles - which he always seems to try to do when things are not perfect and my life looks better than his. (IT IS!) So - I will let him know and not try to allow him any leeway on it other than to let him know we have to revamp our scheduled visits but he can let me know how he plans to get up there. Simple.
We actually split up at our cottage. Ex was arrested at the time. Lots of drama. Ended up with DUI, indecent acts charges (seriously) and told cops he was going to kill me! So I'm not even interested in letting him know the exact location of my new house. He can have a public visit with my son and his nurse in town (about 20 min away from my new home). He managed to get up there when we cottaged there and also to attend court on many occassions after we split - maggot had to drive him - so he knows where it is - LOL!
luvless - I don't even know how to do that. But I'll write it here.
Barb M 54 WAH 57 M 25 T 30 Bomb 08/28/01 Separated 3 months, reunited 1 week (Dec 14 to 21 01) Divorced 06/05 he remarried 09/05 My new R with Josh 02/04 to present Disabled S 31 S 28 D 22
