Thanks for your responses - I am hanging in there, and actually, am feeling like time IS my friend. I have a neighbor who I just found out is going through the same situation, and we are both able to laugh about how ridiculous our men are being, and she is the first one who told me, "Just hang on. Enjoy your time without him, because he'll be back and irritating you before you know it!" That and reading Divorce Remedy, which is helping me see and appreciate some small signs here and there give me hope that we might one day find ourselves on the other side of this mess. In the meantime, it's much more fun being on my own than I expected! He better not wait too long - I might get really used to being on my own! Cheers!
