40 why cant you call the kids? if they are at her sisters call there. I got hit with a 2x4 last night by Robx, I would text the W and ask her when are the kids going to bed, so I can call? she replied that I can call them at anyt time. We dont need to be robots, I realized that they are my kids and I can call to talk to them whenever i want, so that is what I am going to start doing. You should do the same, call when you want to talk to the kids.