Can you get that plan in writing?? lol Ok maybe not really funny. Sounds like something is up with him. Again that is between him and the kids. She maybe should spend her time worrying about her husband rather than the relationship she has with his kids.
Too bad you can't change people that don't want to change. Hang in there Barb.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory