Kissak,
As you know, you don't have to do anything at this point. He will most likely follow the pattern you have seen over and over again. His excuses don't hold water. He knows this. His actions speak louder than his pretty words. Don't excuse his bad behaviour. Sometimes the person you see is the person they are. Nothing more. Nothing less.

Don't let his words, his laundry list of how Kissak has/hasn't changed, bring you down. I have never seen you as strong as you are this time around. You have blossomed into such a confident woman. You have been at this for a very long time, sweet girl. Do what you need to do to take care of yourself and your darling children.

You are always in my prayers,
*hugs*
~ swl


Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}