LH...I wasn't attacking you, nor do I think anyone else was...often times people are even posting at the same time so never think a post is in direct relation to you unless it is said
Affairs are never OK but to rub someone's face in it isn't oK either (again...not sugesting you are doing this) I am merely saying the reason for exposure needs to be a sound one
not one to make them pay to prove you are right or wonderful for standing by them, ready to forgive
saving your marriage begins by saving yourself
if you don't save yourself, you are destined to repeat the pattern
what can you do, LH, to save yourself so you are ready for any relationships (platonic or romantic) that come into your life
what are the blessings that you can find (I used to keep a list...some days it was that I woke up and remembered to do laundry so I had clean clothes)
the lists were important for me to remember that God continues to work in my life.
the blessings are abundant now too many to list but I still try to count them
