I guess Im just waiting on him. I believe he has therapy this afternoon. Im interested in seeing is mood after that or even if he will talk to me about it.
Hi Kissak, I read your thread off and on and thought I might comment this time. Of course you are just waiting on him. This is MLC! Now about the therapy, keep in mind that right after therapy they are processing. My W takes roughly a full day before she decides to make a comment or two that was about her session. Since March she has gone once a week to the therapist. I never ask her how it went (That would be prying)and just keep my ears open to hear something the following day. I would say 9 times out of 10 something she says confirms to me that she is moving forward. By moving forward, I mean moving forward slower than slow. I might as well watch paint dry. But it is what it is.
So I read your post and see my W in a lot of what you report. Making your life miserable,etc, and I think you did the right thing regarding what you felt about being intimate in bed. I know you know to concentrate on YOU in all of this. Very difficult with a live-in to keep your head straight when it is full of mush.
I don't think you want to give up from what I read in your posts. I also would not try to keep searching for reasons to give up just yet. It then becomes a self fulfilling prophecy that you may not be able to stop anymore.
Wow! you have a lot of posts. I hope I can hang in there as long as you. You obviously are a very strong woman. He does not realize what he has.
Since the MLC'r is not the H you know right now, I would say he is doing exactly what is to be expected. I know my W does the same goofy stuff you described that your H does.
Hang on to your faith and keep posting. It is so similar to my sitch that I am looking forward to what happens next for you.
