Not sure where to start or end, WAW - #2

[john28]

I'm kind of in a gray area right now that I think I need some advice on.

Since W and I have divided everything up, the only thing left to do is take it to a L and have the S agreement drawn up. That will happen within the next two weeks.

Right now, we're in a good place. She is happy because she got an agreement with me, and I'm happy because the stress is gone and I'm free of this torment. We ML for the first time in 4 months two days ago. I think we're "feeling the love" again.

I'm not sure how to proceed with my interactions with her. Should I go semi-dark and only engage her on kid stuff when she calls? I think that I should. But how should I be when she calls? Happy? Cold? Dark? Apathetic? I don't know at this point. Since we are feeling close again, I'm not sure how I should react or act.

Both of our minds are in the same place - work on ourselves to get us strong enough to where we can begin working on this M again if possible. Her words were, "We need to work on ourselves a lot. Figure out how to be whole again and not co-dependent. Then we can look at each other again and see if we can work this out. We can't right now. But, we have a lot of history together and I love you so deeply that if we can get strong again I think we can work on us. We'd have to get a buttload of MC, IC and probably Retrouvaille too."

Not sure how to act at this point. I'm in uncharted territory.