It is the only means of communication that I have. When she left she got a new phone and I do not know where she lives. When I thought that there was OM I had spyware put on our computer last year. There was no OM, but I did manage to get her pw for her work and school emails.
She has changed her school email, but I still have her work email. She opened my email last Friday and has kept all of my emails before this sitch and during. I think she is keeping for sentimental reasons and not for anything else since they are all positive and not increminating.
I know that I should not spy, but it is the only means for me to look over the wall that she has built. I also noticed that she recently modified her dating profile. Still the same so so picture, but she cleaned up the grammatical errors. I know I need to GAL and detach, which part of DBing. However, I hear the need to gather intel if you suspect OP so why is it not okay to use available intel to gauge your W's temperature?
Mind reading. And spying. Both are bad for your health. Also, intel gathering is really for when you're together or involved. She's gone. It's just spying now.
