It is the only means of communication that I have. When she left she got a new phone and I do not know where she lives. When I thought that there was OM I had spyware put on our computer last year. There was no OM, but I did manage to get her pw for her work and school emails.
She has changed her school email, but I still have her work email. She opened my email last Friday and has kept all of my emails before this sitch and during. I think she is keeping for sentimental reasons and not for anything else since they are all positive and not increminating.
I know that I should not spy, but it is the only means for me to look over the wall that she has built. I also noticed that she recently modified her dating profile. Still the same so so picture, but she cleaned up the grammatical errors. I know I need to GAL and detach, which part of DBing. However, I hear the need to gather intel if you suspect OP so why is it not okay to use available intel to gauge your W's temperature?
