Why did I place h on a pedestal? Because he was simply my knight in shining armor, or, more realistically, my hunk in plaid riding a rusty Chevy. I believed in him absolutely. His intelligence, his drive, his committment, everything. Even when things were bad I was telling myself I was such a lucky girl. And I know that's an insult to myself. He, on the other hand, always told me he would never have succeeded if not for me.
I think sometimes we forget that other people are failable humans. I too, had my stbxH on a pedestal of sorts, I totally took for granted that his level of commitment would outweigh everything else. I was wrong. MLC changes the rules.
Originally Posted By: punkin
Do I bake cookies? Occasionally, but I'm afraid I'm more of a McDonald's drive thru kid's meal grandma. That, and gummy bears.
Now that, girlfriend, is MY kinda grandma!
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
