Nicole - You need to stop worrying about H and start taking care of you. What do you want to do? If you don't want your marriage to end then don't do anything with the papers. Don't do something because he tells you to or wants you to. Just leave the paperwork and if the 90 days start over then they start over. During the 90 days before, he came home so it wasn't a true 90 day separation so it should start over.

With the house, you can both own it while it is on the market. It would just stipulate in the D that he would have to pay you for the mortgage until it is sold and any debt or profit from the sale would be split (at least in IN).

Really what do you want? Do what is best for you and just stop worrying about H because he will continue to do what he wants so why shouldn't you. If he keeps bothering you, block his number from your phone. It is completely possible to block all texts and incoming calls from a number.

Hope all goes well this week!


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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