I did speak to my marriage therapist the other day who told me to leave the door open for now as she is confused and it has onlybeen a liitle over a week that she has moved out. She told me that I will need to set boundaries but it is too early to see what happens. I do see Erics point and have considered it. I am happy I have you all to share things with. This is a lonely darkroad. I do try to add light to the path by surrounding myself with my children, family and close friends. God has heard me in quiet prayer and I do believe he hears but things will be done in his time. Until then I follow the journey and read and learn about the real Bobby O