Bobby - i am not saying be an as*hole. No. What I am saying is that the nicer you are too her...willing to help..willing to help her with this or that....the more she just may get the sense that you are okay with this.
Eric it's not that I don't agree with this, but I just hope others can give their perspective on this issue. For it's one I'm struggling with daily since my husband seems to need a lot of contact. I too have often though that perhaps he thinks I'm OK with this since I am friendly and happy when he visits. Pulling back and making "rules" seems contrary to the "be the lighthouse" way of thinking but at the same time, I can totally see your point.
"Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I need it the most"
M18 Me39,H42 D16 Bomb 1/10 Moved out 3/10 OW 6/10 H wants to R,OW gone 11/10 H moves back 5/11 H wants to wear rings again 9/11
