Hey everyone, no worries about the hijack. Never hurts to be reminded that BDing is about us and that taking the focus of the WAS and onto us is a deliberate, conscious choice which requires discipline.
Back to being fixers and rescuers... Is asking a trusted friend about the well-being of your WAS a bad thing? Especially if it's only once in a while and he's the father of your chid?
Also, if I wanted WH to hit rock bottom ("for his own good") would that mean not replying to emails that ask about Bub's welfare? Or does one ALWAYS have to reply to questions about kids and finances?
