Overseas Affair

[Piano]

You are feeling panicky for good reason; it is devastating to be abandonned by someone you love, but even more so when you are pregnant with their child. This is a time when you need your spouse more than ever so it heightens the pain of being left, makes you crave what you have lost even more, and makes your need to 'fix' things very intense.

All that spells trouble. For you.

Best thing is to LET GO.

If your H is overseas and there is OW, it is better to accept the cold hard facts of the situation, trust that you can and will handle it, and that it is HIS loss. HIS. HIS. HIS.

The audacity of a man leaving his pregnant wife -- well, it's just overhwelming and it can really hurt your self esteeem. Don't let it. You are worth more. Your children are worth more. You will be OK. That baby is going to give you strength.

I recommend you read 'The Journey from Abandonment to Healing' by Susan Anderson. It's really helping me deal with my loss.