Hi Susan,

Yeah, I'm just lost at words right now. All I know is she will get what is coming to her, one way or another. No way I'm taking her back at this point. I agree she needs help, rather cut my loss now and find someone better. Isn't that why I worked on my issues in the first place?

Going to focus 100% from here on, on me. No more crap. There is better people out there.

My furkids are Beagle and Springer smile Beagle is old and drives me nuts but she's my bedtime snuggler. Springer is my all purpose good dog.

You know, even though your Brother has stairs least you can be in peace. Obviously you need your surgery, so maybe you should get out and go there. Seriously. What act is more for putting yourself first, than that? Might not be ideal but it will benefit you. Put you first and avoid what your H is making you feel you have or might have to do. Look it as home and physical therapy at the same time smile Just let your L do the talking, and set his A$$ free. No need to try anymore.

Hang in there, look forward to hearing your decision.