So basically our emails went back and forth. She did not agree with my proposal, I simly said stop being self dealing, its not about money, lets focus on the kids. This was the last email i sent her:
Whats not good for the kids? not seeing their father is not good for them? or living in daycare while you work? Lets not get into a tug of war with the kids as a rope. The past few months we were living together, I left work that I was not receiving a pacheck for to get the kids, feed them and put them to bed as you worked. At the time you were the only one getting a steay paycheck, I did what I had to do for our family. But our kids need both of us in our lives as much as possible, it is not a monetary thing, the plan I proposed is plenty of time with you and plenty of time with their Father. I live 10 minutes from you and the school, so there is not really a road block in their life. We are getting a divorce, they need both of us to get them through this, spending 5 days a month with me is not healthy for their well-being and not for their self worth. What I propose is fair for our kids
While I wrote this and sent this she sent me another email:
Why is it when I try and have a personal relationship with you you still shove me away.
I am not shoving her awau I am trying to put a schedule together for our KIDS. Why does she make this about her. I am going to lose itsoon with her. I mention lets let the courts figure it out, and she does not touch on that. She continues to talk about "our" relationship. Am i being too forward with my wants? I express the kids interest and she goes back to a "friendship" type talk about us. I am not talking about us, I am not referring to us, my emails are about the kids, working a schedule and she keeps this sh!t up. I think I am dealing with an alien this board hasnt seen before, If I am wrong and you have dealt or seen this before, what do I need to do from here?
I have not responded to the last email, and she has not responded to mine. I will leave it until tomorrow but I need some advice here. I am lost on where to go....
