Mila, I'm SO sorry that you had a confrontation with your H and an emotional weekend!!!!!!!!!! There seems to be WAY too much of that going around here right now, but having to deal with H in your business too must multiply all of the raw emotions exponentially.
From everything that you've written about H in the past it sounds as though he may be having a genuine break with reality.....maybe more than the average MLC. Rhetorical questions that you don't need to answer here if you don't want to: "Is there a history of mental illness in H's family? Is it possible that H's behavior is more than MLC?" Just putting that out there because I don't think you've discussed his family's background before.
Regardless of the cause of his irrational behavior, it sounds as though he doesn't have the mental faculties to have a real world business discussion about these issues now. It seemed that your approach last week in which you spoon fed him was more productive, sad to say. It is NOT fair at all for anyone to ask you to suck it up and spoon feed your H after everything you've been through,......... but for now, if this is the approach that moves Mila forward toward her goal of keeping a revenue stream going, this might be a useful approach to take when dealing with H.
You are under tremendous pressure. You are human and you had a human response. Forgive yourself for that.........and try to give your mind a break from thinking about all of this for at least brief periods of time if you can. That will help tremendously.
