Thanks again Grocerykartman - your advice was dead on, and I had so much more confidence in how to proceed on this. It helped me a lot, and for that I am so grateful. Thank you!
Me: 46 WAW: 43 M: 8.5 yrs, T: 9.5 yrs Best friends b4 marriage: 2 yrs EA/PA: 8/10 Told me she doesn't love me anymore: 9/2/10 Kids: 2 stepdaughters: 17,15, Son: 6