I still have access to some of her personal information, and have checked up on her to see what I can find. But, TBH, lately I haven't really cared that much. If she wants to do whatever - without me - than what does it matter.
Man you aren't just "laid back" and "go with the flow".....you are just lazy! That is why the M is in this shape. You bored your W right out of your bedroom, your M and your life.
So, what do YOU want to do? You sound like you don't want to do anything that requires any effort. Isn't that the real reason you are willing to set her free?
Decide what you are willing to live with.....and what you are not willing to live with. Define your personal boundaries and start from there.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
