I agree- the WAS's ARE aliens. MY H bears NO resemblance now to the man I married 14 years ago. I think my H should get an Oscar for his false portrayal (betrayal) of a H.
I am glad you are doing well with handling the D. It all takes time.
Hang in there and do the things that make you smile~
I told ya! It's weird to realize sometimes how unhappy we are when going through separation and divorce, and how much things get better after, and continue to get better. I'm so glad to hear you are doing well!
Last I remember your XW was being nice, wanting to spend time together etc but you were starting to be less available to her 'advances' per-se. Have things changed now?
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
Bizarre weekend. Ah, you know the details aren't important. She just makes no sense to me now.
Without going into details, from what I understand from a mutual friend, her perspective on our interactions are much, much different than mine, just makes me realize that we are planets apart in our thinking and perceptions.
IR, no, some time ago I told her that we could not spend time together anymore, because it just brought up too much turbulence over the following days. It was a really good decision. Karen, yeah I wish I had taken it to heart sooner.
So I'm a single parent, my boys live here with me, I'm doing all the meals, laundry, cleaning, what have you, and I'm completely in love with my little family.
I could tell you guys some soap-opera stories, but when you take a step back, it's all the same thing. But it keeps getting better.
It's weird to realize sometimes how unhappy we are when going through separation and divorce, and how much things get better after, and continue to get better. I'm so glad to hear you are doing well!