LH

Good advice up there ^^^^ from CMNM.

This is not about your tactics to get your H back any longer.

It is about you.

And how to survive this. How to save you and

...maybe your marriage.

If you don't want a D...

Then don't.

What do you risk?

Your pride?

Your dignity?

Your self respect?

Those are things for you to find in yourself not in response to your H.

That is the journey we focus on here.

So.

A question.

What are you prepared to do for your M if you are not assured it will be saved?

If your H continues his A and his denial of you?

What are you prepared to do to save yourself?

This tragedy we all share can also be the greatest gift you may ever understand in your life.

It is all up to you.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am