Well, he knew after the last big conversation that it was that (stopping the inappropriate/nonsensical stuff) or leaving. That's been quite some time ago, if you recall...6 weeks-ish.
I suppose it wouldn't hurt to point them out or to have the kids thank him.
It's just really a strange, new kind of situation for me. He's being kind, considerate even. It's just not to the point of "husband" behavior. It's that lack of "ILY" and normal M affection that is missing that lets me know his heart is not yet fully with me. I know I can't force that back. I can't make him feel that. I can just be the best me I can be and if he never "falls back in love" with THAT person, there's nothing else I can do!
