Originally Posted By: Lovehurts
But what I don't like is being judged for doing what I think is right to save my marriage.


No one is judging you.

We don't even know you.

We only give opinions based on our own experience and that of those who came before us.

Some opinions differ on a lot of this.

Some people listen to advice some people don't and they have to find their way by doing twhat they think is right.

Experience is a great teacher and so is pain a great motivator.

We all understand the intensity of the pain because we all have been where you are LH.

All of us.

Expose or not expose. Do what you want. I can tell you if it's MLC you won't be getting anywhere but that is just IMHO.

What Fig and CNMN posted is great wisdom and you will be ready to hear it without

...nodding your head and saying "you don't have to tell us".

When you are ready to hear it. And that is not today.

I am not trying to tweak your nose.

While you are focused on your H and the affair you are still too emotionally bound by this tragedy in your marriage.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am