I don't know why you think this post was directed at YOU. It wasn't. Why are you so defensive?
As for your cold theory... well, the approach I am coming from is that sure, you will blow your nose to treat that symptom, but you damn well better wash your hands or do the things you didn't do that allowed the virus in.
Look, I am not the enemy here, and I don't know why you responded in the way you did. I don't come from a place of attacking people. If the things I say sting a little, well, as we say here, you should probably examine why. If none of it pertained to you, why didn't you just shrug it off? Why personalize it?
Maybe I come off much harsher than I intend to. I know what I mean, and all I can do is tell you again that it is not my intention to hurt you or anyone else.
My post was a generalization of the many things/people I see here. I made a lot of mistakes and am just trying to point some things out so that others will hopefully learn quicker than I did.
Your pain is no greater than the pain any of us came here with. The thing is, all you can control in this is YOU. So if you don't want to talk about your part in this, how are you going to prevent getting to the same place once you are reconciled? (see? Positive thinking!)
