cheated on, lied to, and now I am moving on

[awest1217]

H just text me back and said OW was there, but just for a few minutes to give his parents something. He said she asked S if she could stay and play wii with them and he said no he was playing with his daddy. She said ok she didn't have her wii remote anyway and left. If that all is true, and I am pretty sure it is because it goes with S's story, I figure the hair got in the track because OW is at his parents house a lot and her hair is probably in the carpet or H took the track to show OW and her hair got on it then. Either way, OW is still in his life.

I told H that our parenting arrangement only works with honesty and it was horrible for him to make it sound like S was lying just to save his own butt. H said he was sorry. I just hope he doesn't keep doing to me what he did our whole marriage because I am not going to have him come between S and me or make S into a liar. I just want what is best for S and being able to talk to his parents his important so I want to know who is around S so when he talks about them, I know who he is talking about.

A little sad now, but I have some cleaning to do so hopefully that will just pull me out of it. I just don't know OW to take my place with S (I know in my heart that can't happen...just tell my head) like she has with H and the in-laws. I just can't believe they have accepted her so easily when we aren't even divorced yet...oh well. Apple doesn't fall far from the tree...