Honestly, I think he really believes he is doing so - or trying to do so. He's here. He's given up all his inappropriate activities and stopped all the nonsensical behavior. He's being kind, he's participating, he's not pointing fingers or blaming anymore. (Well, not externally anyway, perhaps internally and not voicing it, I'm not sure.) In these ways I truly have to give him credit.
The bigger problem is that he isn't FULLy participating, isn't FULLY active in restoring the marriage. His heart is still not here... So, I'm being patient and giving him credit for progress. However, I'm hoping he hasn't just resorted back to holding everything in and not dealing. That's not good.
