"The story" is in her head. She has to justify what she's doing in her own mind. You are not going according to her plan by being so agreeable. So, she has to lash out to get your negative reaction. That way you continue to be the bad guy for her.
As a woman, I can totally see what she's doing. You handling it the best that you can. Don't engage or give her the pay off that she wants. It will be very frustrating for her and she'll feel bad for doing it. That's why you'll get the "friendly" messages, "i'm worried about you", "you seem stressed", etc. But, she's not your friend and anything you say to her will come back to bite you.
BTW- call me Blue for short, not BS don't want to give people the wrong idea
don't want to give people the wrong idea
