Going home......................

[lovehurts]

In decide to expose the affair
ask your self why you are doing it

are you coming from a place where you want them to "wake up and end it?"

or

are you coming from a place of truth

if your motives are pure truth...you are exposing not to make them pay or to make them realize their mistake,

if you are exposing for you
for truth

and the end result isn't why you are exposing

then expose

if you are exposing to be "right" to "wake them up" "so that other people will know what a slimeball/slut the OP is" or any other reason...don't expose

you aren't doing it from a place of healing
you are playing "who is more righteous"

cant you expose for truth and to take the clandestine "fun" out of it so they look at it through more realistic eyes?