HAHA thats pretty good, I had the "i am not going to put up with your crap behavior" on the tip of my tongue but other words passed that phrase up. Im going to head out, will NC the rest of the day, well for eternity at least unless it has to do with the kids. As sh said what she wants to talk about, she stated earlier will be handled in court, so why talk about it now. Maybe her L is telling her, look this isnt going to be as clear cut as you thought, so maybe if you guys work out an agreement first it will be easier. Dont know, but I think getting a L involved might help at this point.