I'm very grateful to hear you're all ok, but I can totally understand why your thoughts would immediately go to how this will affect any progress you've been able to make (or not). I think the stuff we're all going through is so omnipresent in our lives that EVERY major event, good or bad, is something we worry about triggering a bad or good response from the spouse. In many cases our worry is probably over nothing and the event doesn't make a difference. Let's hope if it does, it's a positive difference, but I agree with LanceSijan above that there is a reason for everything. (((HUGS)))
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying
