We both have plans today, so why dont we just do our own thing.
It's antagonistic. She's likely to react like you just picked a fight when that's not what you wanted.
I have a feeling that this is not going to be as amiable as you think. She's trying to make you the villan but you're not playing along. She's having to improvise to get the story to match her version. Thus, the get your stuff out of my house and shutting garage door on your head. Be careful.
