Sorry, even after all my ramblings, I failed to mention the whole wedding ring thing. I noticed that for the past few weeks - she has not worn her wedding rings at all. She even 'unfriended' me on Facebook, and listed herself as not married.
This may have been in response to a text that I sent to her a few days after her night of not coming home - when I said that I knew who she was with and I wasn't happy that she lied to me about it.
Since then, she changed the password on her (and the kids) phone account - so I cannot see who she texts now - and also one of her credit card accounts.
I know that was a stupid move on my part - but you live and learn, I guess.
I still have access to some of her personal information, and have checked up on her to see what I can find. But, TBH, lately I haven't really cared that much. If she wants to do whatever - without me - than what does it matter.
Ok, I will recap for you.
1. She takes her ring off. 2. She unfriends you on facebook so you can't see what she's doing. 3. She lists herself as not married on facebook. 4. She changed the password on her phone so you can't see what she texts. 5. She changes the password on a single credit card so you can't see where she goes.
COME ON MAN WAKE UP. Seriously? She's have an A. No doubt in my mind.
Time to do some aggressive affair busting.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
