I know that our first reaction upon finding out that there is an affair going on is to get back at our spouse. We are angry and hurt and feel humiliated. Our dreams are shot to hell and life as we knew it changes forever. But our marriages can be saved if we are at least willing to try to work at it. Unfortunately we can't control our spouses behavior, but we can definately control our own. You can catch more flies with honey than vinegar. Thanks again for posting, BND
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
