The "friends" thing and "winning." You follow my thread and know I've been struggling with that for the past couple of months. You are way ahead of me in terms of accepting it though.
A player on my company softball team told me yesterday that he and his ex have been friends since the D. She cheated on him. He kicked her out. She married the affair partner and he just remarried this year. His girls are my oldest's age and they seem to be doing well. We're going to have them over to swim next summer.
He's six years into it. I know I'm struggling now, but I look at him with hope. Time is our only friend in this.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
