Many were taking the position that his W was "bad." She's not "bad." She's just in a bad way and dangerously close to a breakdown. I was surprised that people didn't see that.
You are mind reading. It was obvious from his first week here that she was "drowning." Don't make the mistake that letting her go is not compassionate. Saving yourself is the priority. I am all about being compassionate and loving, it takes a while to realise that "letting them go" is the most loving thing you can do to someone who wants to leave.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.