I have a dilemma here regarding my trips. It always drives me nuts to find out some more important news from H's FB not from him directly. It upsets me when he does it and even though many times I wanted to give him the taste of his own medicine, I don't want to do that. I think that' it's unfair of one person in M to do that to the other one and I don't want to set the bad example.
So how do I let him know about my planned trips when we're not talking?
Accept that there is only one thing you can change in life and that is you
