Well folks, I went to the social event, a picnic, and my wife was there. I stayed two hours without acknowledging her, looking dirctly at her or speaking to her. I dressed up well, smelt good (I hope) and was very cheerful and happy; so I feel it went well for me. I'm not really bothered if wife noticed, but she must have, it was for my benefit not hers. It was the first time I had seen some of my friends for some months, so I was very glad I went. I am continuing my no contact phase for a while, we will see how it goes, but I feel it is helping me. I know that NC means not even seeing the spouse but sometimes it's difficult.
My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2074259#Post2074259 M:64 W:45 Married: 08/07/2000 No children Bomb drop:05/04/2010 Moved out:05/04/2010
