Congrats about the tips! Guess you still "got it!"
Well, it does look like your H did "win" the friendship part. Sounds like you two are more friends than not...hug each other goodbye, go to do things with your S together, and he offers to take care of you. But at least you are not letting him help.
OUt of curiosity, why did it matter that he knew you were with BIL? He would have still been jealous, but I guess now he has a face to his jealousy. This is his brother?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
