What you are doing is totally unhealthy for your children.
You need to talk to them about the situation. Do not allow them to call H if they are going to be crying on the phone.
He will not be guilted into coming back b/c of a voicemail on is phone.
I know it's hard for you with the kids. I have been there too.
Control your anger and be the best mom (&dad) to your kids.
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