Originally Posted By: TimeHeals
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Right now I am intersted in what might encourage him to see that what he is doing is hurting our son, me and our marriage.



So... you'd like to control him, what he thinks, and how he feels.

It's not going to happen. You'll just make yourself miserable trying.


no. I am talking about drawing boundaries as talking gets us nowhere. I'm not talking about control. See Allen's advice above - very good statement.

Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship